For you and me and Science says that socializing more tends to make you happier. We all know it by the experience, and we laugh a lot in herds. Is not it true? Relationships, Friendships, family all make our time enjoyable as humans.

There is a different viewpoint when it comes to highly intelligent people. They do enjoy the companionship however the socializing with friends actually not the main factor in the satisfaction of life for this community.

Let’s try to understand what causes this phenomenon.

Smart people quickly adapt to complex situations, so they don’t really depend on other people to break it down for them and this is common for benefits of staying in close connection with social groups for meals, lodging, security, and many more are no longer relevant for these people as they are self-sufficient to get these needs fulfilled.

Another point is when you are a smart person, you tend to have long-term goals. Your focus stays intact on long-term goals. The more you spend time socializing means you are not getting your tasks done for your long-term goal. This will become a cause of being unhappy because you are getting distracted from your focus.

Law of attraction

This is a popular belief in our society nowadays where if you believe something strongly and act towards it you will receive it based on universal forces in simple terms. Usually, if you set something in mind strongly then often, you will find a way to achieve your goal. Positive thinking is coupled with positive actions will drive you to great results or almost what you desire. Now let’s turn our heads to intelligent people.

Relate those goals to a group of people, It just takes one person to say that this cannot be done. You will quickly infuse some negative energy into the team. Did you get why most intelligent people prefer to be alone? They would like to work on their positive energy to get the problem solved rather than adding some negativity from other people.

Solving problems

In the past, we rely on teams to solve problems. But with the evolution we have improved our innate abilities of solving complex problems by ourselves. This is mainly aided by latest technology, better education, and more resource availability. Now we are marching towards two heads concept to too many cooks spoil the soup concept. This is because it is much easier to focus when you are working alone than in group of people. Obviously, we can seek support of friends where we need expertise of people.

After all these points, Socializing is important because still we are social beings. We should get out and explore the world and try some exciting things. It will help to break away from all seriousness of life. It will relax your mind and ease the work pressure.

If you like to spend time alone by reading some good books, exploring new skills, working on a tough projects, or working on your long-term goals don’t assume that you are a loner or anti-social. You could be smarter than us!

Let’s get some problems solved champ.

Do you familiar with the phrases like “I never get any break”, “I can’t help it, I’ve always been in that way”, “I will never be successful”, “I don’t have enough time.”? This is what we are going to talk about today. Everyone in the world has gone through this at least a single time in someday. All these thoughts get in our way if we are trying to achieve something in our lives.
Sometimes we repeat these lines too many times a day which will infuse so much negativity into our minds unintentionally. It will get registered in your mind when you do this for a certain amount of time, and it will become a huge mental barrier.

Let’s analyze the phrase that many of us go through frequently. “I don’t have enough time”. It implies that you don’t get things done on time frequently as you have a lot on your plate. Then another negative thought sneaked in as “I don’t have any time to lose”. Restlessness starts to kick in from there onwards. Do you see the chain of thoughts going around? You started with one phrase, but it sets fire to the whole block and imagine how does your day goes if you do it daily. Will these types of thoughts give you any joy? The effect of such a chain is strictly negative.

Now, look at yourself, what is your biggest limiting belief? Is it that you think that you are not good enough or lucky to have what you want to achieve in your life?. You might think that you are not deserved to be successful to other people control your life to a greater extent. Remember each time you encounter such a thought, whatever it is, it’s not worth keeping and certainly not worth defending yourself against it. This will put a wall between you and your desired goal.

How do we overcome it?

The good news is there is way to get rid of these negative thoughts which ultimately remove any negative impacts that carries with them.

• Monitor how your thoughts flow

You will have to first understand how your brain is wired with these thoughts. If you start to observe how do your negative thoughts come alive? What is the most common time they are coming into your mind? Is there any specific place likewise you can explore your mind to start breaking these chains. You will start to see a possible cure once you are conscious of your thoughts.

• Be rebellious and refuse to continue

when there is a negative thought simply refuse to continue. Make a firm commitment to yourself to stop reinforcing negative beliefs by discussing them. As familiar negativity comes to mind, gently dismiss as you would fly at a picnic. Don’t give it your valuable attention.

• Replace the negative thought with a positive one

Even in our mind, there is a limited space to think, and you cannot think two thoughts at once. Start to make slight changes to your thinking. For example. If you come across “I don’t have time” just tweak it to “how can I make some time for it”. Everything takes time to be in control so does success. Practice makes things perfect.

In this way, you can save your energy for positive ideas and action. you’ll discover that abundance and joy will be right around the corner once you get rid of these negative thoughts consciously.